“Remember this, for it is as true as true gets:
Your body is not a lemon, You are not a machine.
The Creator is not a careless mechanic.
Human female bodies have the same potential to give birth well as aardvarks, lions, rhinoceros, elephants, moose, and water buffalo.
Even if it has not been your habit throughout your life so far, I recommend that you learn to think positively about your body”
~ Ina May Gaskin
No need to be that obsessive to have tight diet. Love your body and have a healthy lifestlye is the best thing.
I remember my beautiful friend who really obsessed with diet. No, she is not fat at all. She just has a big fear if she gain more weight. With tall 163 and weight 48kg, who will call her fat? It’s kind of paranoid for her to gain weight. To make sure everything is fine on her side, she often skip her lunch and even dinner. Sometimes she just eat 2x/ day, and sometimes 1x/day. It’s with very small portion and she’s very picky on what she eat. She doesn’t usually eat something heavy. Perhaps only bread or fruit or snack.
If she finds her gain weight, even for less than 1kg, she will scream like crazy and afraid to eat. Oh, well, she doesn’t even know that she looks so tiny in my view. She doesn’t enjoy her life while she is actually very beautiful and makes people want to be like her.
Of course I know she is not the only one. There are so many girls in the world too obsessed with their body. Sometimes it’s just all about mindset. Many girls think that gain weight, even for little, will make them not attractive. They are afraid the boys will turn them down. Or perhaps their favorite celebrity has zero size so they want to have the same thing.
Oh come on, you are girl just beautiful the way you are. If the boy doesn’t like your size, you should just ignore them. You deserve something better. You deserve a good boy who appreciate you for what you have and love you just the way you are. If a man loves you for your body, he will easily leave you after find the one with more sexy body than you. It’s end less.